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It not something that usually bothers me, in fact I find it comical that I am so focused on the 5 others in the house that I am often neglected. I had the same jeans for 4 years and my husband has just a few months ago gone and gotten all new jeans!(for the second time since I last got new jeans)I didn gripe and I didn even ask for my own. If I buy a pair of new boots, it really all I get and it is held over my head for months that I got boots. am so sad, and hurt. I don mind being last,[url=http://peutereyoutletitaliaonline.olimx.com/][b]Peuterey Italia Online[/b][/url], but when I want to be first, I should be put first. I am not.
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It not about money because we have the money, it is about the power I have given him over me that he abuses.
I don have a single pair of summer shoes. Not one. I threw my many 10 year old sandals away 2 years ago because they were old, worn out, and unwearable. I bought some new outfits yesterday (after much begging on my part) to find out he would not let me buy shoes. I have cute outfits now (something which is rare for me) and I cannot wear them with sneakers!
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